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How do you meet people when you're older and alone?

- Published on : 06-04-23
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Meeting new people as a senior citizen on your own may seem difficult, but it's not impossible.
Although Senior.Life is not a dating site, it can put you in touch with new people. Our "relationships" expert on Senior.Life certifies that the real love encounter cannot be the one too often prescribed by dating sites, i.e. the absolute search for a relationship "so as not to be alone". This project is based on the need not to be alone, at the expense of the quality of the relationship. People who are absolutely looking for a relationship tend to show only a window onto themselves and are chosen on criteria that are not real.
A quality relationship is based on good communication and the sharing of common passions. Senior.Life is therefore positioned differently. The people in this community of happy seniors share their interests and create real friendships. On the network, they are not alone and can discuss subjects that concern or interest them, and be inspired by new activities. Bonds are built. And of course, true love can grow out of these selfless relationships.
But Senior.Life's primary aim is to enable seniors to exist in their passions and to be themselves on a network where it is not particularly important to be a showcase for encounters.
The plus point of our network is also the extreme friendliness that circulates between these friends. When a grazer makes an appearance, there's an exchange: "Hey, guys, do other people also receive private messages from this person? A real protective collusion, and a guarantee that you'll end up with a real image of the other person, and not, once again, a showcase to please, seduce and hook up quickly.
To avoid feeling lonely, it's a good idea to learn to be alone and to feel good about yourself, to develop your passions, and to go out and meet people you don't care about.
Here are a few ideas to help you meet new people:
- Join clubs or common interest groups: if you have particular interests, joining a local club or group can be a great way to meet other people with similar interests.
- Attend community events: many local events, such as fairs, festivals and concerts, are open to the public. It's a chance to get out and about, meet new people and have fun.
- Get involved in voluntary work: volunteering for a cause you care about can be a great way to meet like-minded people.
- Use social networks: social networks can also be a great way to meet new people online. You can join groups or pages dedicated to shared interests and interact with members of the community, just like Senior.Life! You can communicate with people who share your interests, but also find out about activities and services for you, get support and company, and read blogs that talk about your concerns.
Don't forget that meeting new people can take time and that it's important to remain open-minded and not to get discouraged if the first meetings are not conclusive.